First long-distance wedding tip: Chill. Panicking about details when you're not physically there to oversee them will not get you anywhere. The good news is that many brides who have planned weddings from afar say it can actually reduce stress. How? You're compelled to make decisions quickly, no dwelling or second-guessing. Ready to start? Here's the plan:
Make a 'here or there' list.
Write out what can be done from where you are and what will need to be arranged where you plan to wed. Do as much as you can where you live - choose your dress, accessories, bridesmaid dresses, invitations, favors, etc. Things that must be booked there (florist, caterer, makeup and hair stylists, etc.) will need to be done on weekend trips or through great communication. Send or e-mail pictures of your ideal bouquet, hairstyles, etc., to your vendors as you come across them.
Know what you want.
Zeroing in on a specific style, ambience or color scheme you prefer will smooth the process and aid efficiency. At the same time, you'll need to be flexible and work with what's available at that location. As a side note, many photographers travel and some cake designers ship. though the costs can be prohibitive.
Keep it simple.
Minimalism will make things easier for both you and your vendors. This doesn't mean you have to use paper plates and plastic utensils. But it does mean sticking to, say, the white linens your site offers, because you can't be there to nitpick over color swatche
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